Use the robocopy tool with the /xn switch. I believe Server 2008 comes with robocopy as standard now.
/XC :: eXclude Changed files.
/XN :: eXclude Newer files.
/XO :: eXclude Older files.
/XX :: eXclude eXtra files and directories.
/XL :: eXclude Lonely files and directories.
/MOV :: MOVe files (delete from source after copying).
/MOVE :: MOVE files AND dirs (delete from source after copying).
so the command will be something like
robocopy OLDDIR NEWDIR /MOVE /XN
this will move over all the old files but wont overwrite new ones
You can always use the /L switch to do a dry run this will show you what will happen without actually do anything. Some things may be different on 2008, I am using the XP version.