There IS a solution for this. The problem.. I lost it.
It was a ... hdparm? sdparm? smartmontools? I cant recall it. Anyway, it was using a Linux tool (Win port of it) to turn it off, and Unlocker to unlock the drive.
I found this in a blog post using Google..after some hours. Guess it'd take even more now. If anyone have the solution for this, please post it!