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Is it possible to change the toolbar icons in gVim (without patching the exe)? It seems like you can change everything else, and they are so ugly...
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Depening on which OS and which widget library you are using, the default icons may be determined by your current theme. I know at least the GNOME GUI for Vim is this way.
Beyond that, you can manually edit