Now I deleted question like that.. earlier because I thought deleting of .DS_Store would help... But I still have a hard to live with big file count in one directory.
Don't ask me why everything is in one dir, it can't be another way. I constantly getting many files every week, and I have some renaming program on mac, which - after renaming, if duplicated file name is found, can add "" to the end of the file. This is quite hard to do with having multiple directories and it's time consuming procedure you know..so having all files in one dir saves my time.
Now... I own 300gb storage in here, which plugs thru USB. When I opening this directory it takes 20 SECONDS to show file listing. Same goes from shell.. I even tried to move those files to network device, this time OSX creates some .AppleDouble dir which lags even more then it was before. USB hdd have NTFS and network device FFS through AFP protocol.
I can't stand this anymore please what's wrong is this OSX issue some filesystem limit or what? My friend having even more files then I do (yeah it's whole karaoke database) even more.. and it's fine in windows with total commander.. he have no lag at all you know..