Is there a way to limit the number of children than mysqld spawns? Or should one not worry about that? My VPS only has 512MB of RAM.
Here's the output of htop, after I set max_connections to 6 and restarted the mysql service:
PID USER PRI NI VIRT RES SHR S CPU% MEM% TIME+ Command
27082 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.41 `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
27121 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.05 | `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
27099 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.23 | `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
27097 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.00 | `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
27096 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.00 | `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
27095 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.00 | `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
27094 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.02 | `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
27093 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.01 | `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
27091 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.00 | `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
27090 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.00 | `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
27089 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.00 | `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
27088 mysql 20 0 136M 28868 5800 S 0.0 5.7 0:00.00 | `- /usr/sbin/mysqld
I've installed MySQL using aptitude.
$ aptitude search '~i'
i A mysql-client-5.1 - MySQL database client binaries
i A mysql-client-core-5.1 - MySQL database core client binaries
i A mysql-common - MySQL database common files, e.g. /etc/mysql/my.cnf
i mysql-server - MySQL database server (metapackage depending on the latest version)
i A mysql-server-5.1 - MySQL database server binaries and system database setup
i A mysql-server-core-5.1 - MySQL database server binaries