Drop your cache periodically. That way, when processes request small amounts of memory, your computer's not busy caching out small bits at a time. Slows down your computer overall, but at least you won't be sitting there waiting for it to thrash when flash eats you alive.
while sleep 30; do vmstat && echo 3 > drop_caches && vmstat; done
Nov 11 10:40:59 eeyore kernel: [604280.360966] icedove-bin invoked oom-killer: gfp_mask=0x201da, order=0, oom_adj=0, oom_score_adj=0
Nov 11 10:40:59 eeyore kernel: [604280.606183] Out of memory: Kill process 12767 (firefox-bin) score 325 or sacrifice child
Nov 11 10:40:59 eeyore kernel: [604280.607749] Killed process 12914 (plugin-containe) total-vm:187036kB, anon-rss:14488kB, file-rss:0kB
Nov 11 10:41:23 eeyore kernel: [604305.020890] Xorg invoked oom-killer: gfp_mask=0x201da, order=0, oom_adj=0, oom_score_adj=0
Nov 11 10:41:24 eeyore kernel: [604305.096299] Out of memory: Kill process 12767 (firefox-bin) score 325 or sacrifice child
Nov 11 10:41:24 eeyore kernel: [604305.096308] Killed process 482 (plugin-containe) total-vm:61124kB, anon-rss:2420kB, file-rss:0kB
Nov 11 10:41:30 eeyore kernel: [604311.107726] python invoked oom-killer: gfp_mask=0x201da, order=0, oom_adj=0, oom_score_adj=0
Nov 11 10:41:30 eeyore kernel: [604311.531604] Out of memory: Kill process 12767 (firefox-bin) score 325 or sacrifice child
Nov 11 10:41:30 eeyore kernel: [604311.533284] Killed process 12767 (firefox-bin) total-vm:1388764kB, anon-rss:659040kB, file-rss:0kB