The numbers of writes on a SSD until it dies is lower than a regular HD.
So, any time you write to it, it's death comes closer.
you just have to select what is worth writing.
one thing is to disable atime. on any file system. unless you need it. i never needed on my desktop. i can happily live w/out it.
journal, i can disable on SSDs, but never on HDs. Just because the probability of needing it on a HD medium is high enough to justify the resource (drive live and performance) usage
if you need some feature, enable, if not, you are just wasting resources. I disable atime on HDs because of performance...
and keep in mind that newer SSDs live much longer now.
and now finally answering the question :) i think nobody tells you to disable journal on SSDs while using NTFS because nobody knows better. it's extremely easy to find bad advice on windows forums. and the same is happening with ubuntu... so use a grain of salt when using forum for those.