Is there a way to let embedded videos (primarily flash, but I'd prefer something that will also work with HTML5 video) automatically background load; but not start playing until explicitly started?
The typical use case where I want this ability is when opening a number of what I expected to be text pages in separate tabs using middle clicks only to have something start yapping at me; at which point I need to click through all the new tabs to find and stop the offender.
I'd prefer not to completely block video download to avoid the startup delay if I decide to watch the video when I view the page its embedded in.