I share out a folder on my windows 7 machine. But, I would really like a notification to tell me when someone connects to it. Or I would like to at least be able to check at any one time who is looking at it?
Go to Start, right click Computer and choose Manage.
On the left side of the Computer Management window that appears expand the Shared Folders node. There you have three options:
To have a history of who accessed what and when, configure Windows 7 to log access to shared folders as Audit Events in the Event Log - follow these instructions.
You can also get software that will allow you to monitor the shares such as this.