The issue here is NOT one of trying to figure out the difference between the two RAM offering. The issue here is that both are eBay listings, and not subject to quality control as far as what the person selling the product actually types when they list the product.
Yes. Laptops use SO-DIMM memory. And... if you were to go by the pictures provided for both listings, then BOTH of the items are SO-DIMM, as they are both the same size (physically), have the notch in the same place, both made for laptops, etc.
If it's made for a laptop, it's SO-DIMM. If it's made for a laptop, this does not mean that the person listing the memory for sale is smart enough to add that (when it's not visible on the packaging).