It's not hidden by the ISP, a disable option is just not implemented by the manufacturer. "Radar detection" is a built-in "feature" that is required by law, so it is not possible to disable the detection phase after the reboot.
As far as I know, this detection is restricted to channels 116-132, using lower (or higher) channels should take care of this problem.
According to the manufacturer switching to different frequencies does not help (although other 6660 users supposedly solved the problem this way):
Only FRITZ!Box models with Zero Wait DFS (for example FRITZ!Box 7590, FRITZ!Box 6591 Cable) can avoid the DFS wait time.
The manufacturer says you need to use 2.4 GHz network until DFS wait time is over (see the first link: "Radar detection").
First you can/should verify this by disabling the 5GHz band altogether, the problem should disappear.
If you can't use 2.4GHz, you will need to set up an additional AP (connected via Ethernet), they are fairly inexpensive. Make sure there is no overlap in the bandwidth of both APs if they are set up inside each other's radius.