For your specific question the answer is : No, there isn't.
But there is a very good workaround: Never use any automatic spacing between paragraphs, neither before nor after them! These automatic spacings are indeed a pretty dumb kind of automatism. They lead all the time to the kind of problem you brought us, that don't have solution while you keep using them. (By the way, Word has other dumb automatisms too, but lets stay with this one only.)
Want 100% control over spaces between paragraphs? Very easy: Just add 1 or more blank paragraphs when you want an extra line. Very simple and very quick, no? And this allows you set the exact amount of space you want on each place of you text. Good luck!